Everyone here is right and the advice given is tough love. I suppose fear is causing me to not follow through and set boundaries. I don't know why I'm frozen with such fear.

His behavior is not fair to me or the kids. We deserve better...not to say that it can't be H, but it needs to be a new and improved version of him.

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Can someone help me with what to say exactly, so I don't fumble with my words and mess it up?