Do not validate his feelings or whats happening with OW. Do not validate anything bad he says about you or any put downs he throws your way.
I am not validating anything regarding the EA. H doesn't talk about her with me, which is very wise!
I need to let the EA run it's course, but it stinks waiting it out. I just want to expose her, so that she will stop pursuing H. It almost feels like he is waiting for me to do something to make it stop because he can't do it himself and thus not directly hurting the OW. What an entanglement.
