Everything you speak of is true right now but there is a universal law called karma and this law is the same as gravity. There will be consequences for you W in the future, we just don’t know what they are right now.
I'm still at the stage where at times I hope the karma thing is true. Then again, if she ends up being happy because of this, then maybe she made the right decision. She must have been hurting (whether most people would think there is much validity to her feelings or not) to walk away from a 17 relationship, break up our family, leave behind our dream house in a great location. I'm out of the fog, so I realize that many women would think I'm a good husband (especially after talking to several divorced women). However, maybe I'm not the right husband for my ex-wife.
AS makes good points. Unfortunately, we don't learn the lesson until our wives drop the bomb. A lot of us will make good husbands in the future, if we learn from this.
