Well, since I last posted a few things have happened...
H made a change in behavior and turned towards me and away from the OW. He finally could look into my eyes when talking, engaged and started conversations and was his happy self that left about 5 months ago. He would leave his phone alone for more than 5 mins. Things were looking promising and I thought maybe the affair was coming to an end. Well, the OW is back and H is depressed and his joy is gone. He is starting to be snippy with me and the kids again.
I so want to cuss the OW out and expose the affair, but I know that is wrong and not helpful.