Wife is having an affair and wants to separate

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My WW said the same BS. "I have no future with OM, OM is not the reason I want a D, its your fault, blah blah blah blah blah.

Drop the rope. I told my WW that I am done. It took her nine months to finally get the D paperwork together and to file and now I think she is messing with the case because she doesnt want to pay me child support.

I honestly believe that my WW thought I was just going to stick around sucking on my thumb and pining for her while she did whatever she wanted to do. I ended up meeting a nice younger woman six months after BD and I have never been happier and never looked back.

Now I am planning MY life. Planning to move out so I can be happy and make decisions that make me happy. WW is still with her much older long distance, married OM. I simply do not care anymore. If she truly has no future with him then she sure is wasting a huge portion of her life. Thats for her to deal with now. No my monkey.

Now that you had the talk, just focus on yourself. No more snooping, no more pursuit, no more asking questions etc. Just be you and do you.