Vik, when I confronted my EXTREMELY PIOUS and RELIGIOUS W about her sending nude photos to another man, her response was very similar. At one point she even said, emotionless, "that must have been awful for you". She said it as if she were telling a story.

WWs do not care about us. There attitude is "you hurt me for so long I no longer care if I hurt you". It hurts. It [censored]. But that is the way it is.

Do what AS says. The only thing you discuss with her is logistics around your daughter. Period. If she starts wanting to get into other things you are busy, or can't talk, or can't text right now.

You see, she has to feel like you are taking control of YOUR life back. Until now she has felt in control. Most WWs have a bit of a wake up once they feel that loss of control. Including that some times she may even try to seduce you. Some WWs want to maintain control so much that they will attempt that.

The rule? If she is in an active affair DO NOT GIVE IN. You have to protect your physical health here. Be strong. Be firm. Be resolute.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018