T, most all of us are still hanging around :-) Sounds like things are going well enough, congrats and thanks for the update! Since she initiated sex 3 weeks ago maybe she's waiting for you to initiate this time? I understand the fear of pregnancy but there is a LOT that falls under the umbrella of "sex" other than the kind that results in pregnancy. That kind accounts for maybe 10% of the sexual activities my GF and I engage in. Get creative :-)