The atmosphere in our house has been a lot lighter and happier, even though we're certainly not 100% where we want or need to be. Like I said, we still have our ups and downs, but our downs aren't nearly as low as they've been in the past. We're also at least trying to incorporate more date nights and quality time just for us.
This is huge. I am on record as saying that a big factor on my sitch's turnaround was the lightening of the atmosphere in our house. My W as resistant to embrace it as the new norm at first, but I think she is trusting it more now. Even my D has started to come around on it.
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We haven't had anything since, and she said in MC that one reason is because of her fear of getting pregnant again.
Vasectomy time?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
