Yail - My ex and were together from when we were children (12 to be exact). He said when we separated that he wished we'd met later in life. He was/is a good man. We had put off getting engaged for soooo long (university, starting our careers, waiting until we had a deposit) that when it finally happened, instead of feeling excited, I just felt trapped. I am not saying that is what happened with your wife. It is just what happened to me.
I love the list. You could probably cross quite a few of those off in a single afternoon ... but it may be worth drawing it out.
Why just one good outfit ?!?! buy a few sexy tops (to show off those toned arms you're going to have by summer), a great pair of jeans and some kick @rse ankle boots. Multiple outfits suitable for a host of occasions.
Cute boho dresses are also great for showing off toned arms and look great with all that jewelry your planning on buying.