and affair is not the reason for her leaving. Then started to talk about last two years and how difficult her life was and kept going on my ignoring her and not being available for her loneliness.
Right, exactly what we told you she would do.
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After listening for 2 minutes
That was 2 minutes too long.
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But I was completely heartbroken to see no remorse or no emotion on her face. It just was so painful.
So despite everything we said, you still went in with expectations. You expected remorse, sadness, maybe a sobbing breakdown where she admits her wrongdoing and swears her life to you if only you'll give her another chance. You watch too many movies! Look I know this hurts, but she is behaving according to script. This is how she feels right now and will for quite some time. LISTEN TO US! She can and will feel differently at some point in the future, but not right now. THIS IS WHY WE SAY GET OUT, GAL, leave her ALONE. Because there is NOTHING you can do right now that will help, but lots you can do that will make things worse.
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I see now she has left home and went to home depot to buy stuff for her apartment. (How can these WWs be so heartless).
She has feelings, she feels guilt and remorse even though she doesn't show it. But she also feels JUSTIFIED. She feels she MUST do this to escape a horrible (in her foggy mind) marriage.
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Any idea on what I should be expecting in coming 5 days that we will be in the same apartment and how should I conduct myself?
Be as scarce as possible. Go as dark as you can. Keep contact to a minimum.
