Hi everyone. Wow, I can't believe it's been like 3 months since my last post. I"m not even sure who's here anymore!
Me personally, I've been super busy with my son's wrestling, and now his wrestling and soccer. It's crazy. I"ve also been swamped at work, and with IT now monitoring activities, I haven't been able to really post at work.
It's hard to think back over the past 3 months. Just a quick summary I guess, W and I are still together, and still plugging along in MC. There have been a few small arguments, but nothing major, and we seem to be getting along well.
About 3 weeks ago we finally had sex. She initiated. Unfortunately, since it's been so long, it wasn't one of my finer moments! lol. We haven't had anything since, and she said in MC that one reason is because of her fear of getting pregnant again. I guess we've both been really busy too, so there hasn't been a ton of opportunities.
We're pretty deep into planning a vacation for this summer, and we've both been really involved with our sons sports and activities. In the past, we'd take turns taking him to things, but now we're attending together. And maybe the best thing about all of this is, our son has been much better too (now has certain routines, is better behaved, etc).
The atmosphere in our house has been a lot lighter and happier, even though we're certainly not 100% where we want or need to be. Like I said, we still have our ups and downs, but our downs aren't nearly as low as they've been in the past. We're also at least trying to incorporate more date nights and quality time just for us.
It's been a slow, long, and sometimes painful process, but I give a ton of credit to our counselor, and also to both of us for putting in the effort. I also can't thank this board enough (especially Steve, Over, AS, etc), cause without them I'd be divorced right now. I'll try to check in a bit more now that things have settled down a bit.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
