I know you fell strongly about R with him, and Im a big believer in intuition, and it may happen- and I totally agree with Job to move forward
no more relationship talks- let him see you letting go-making friends-having fun moving away from him I think he has to see you are moving on with your life
I would see a L if you have not -think about if for a free consult to see where you land financially if D happens I would not tell your H about L
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow