Good idea picking up your personal belongings. It was nice to tell MIL what you did, and I know you meant it. This crisis is hard on lots of people around the MLCer, her parents are in a difficult spot.
W’s reply towards son’s birthday is pretty typical. They don’t like to share their plans. I wouldn’t be surprised if she does show up, she very well could, and it is much more dramatic with “I’ll let you know” (and a little disrespectful). Just breathe, it’s hard to take as the MLCer tries to make everthing about them, because to them it is. That being said, keep expectations at zero, and make it a great Birthday no matter what happens.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
