I tried to be as honest as possible without concerning the kids

They have their lives to live and cant be concerned with a dad such as my XH

I would say things to my kids like sometimes people get sick, some get better-
We can pray for him

If he gets better we will hear from him, If not, it is for the best-and we wish him the best

In my situation , he left so we just let go after the first 2 years-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow