Guys I need help with something. I need a woman to mansplain this to me. Sandi, DejaVu6, somebody please...lol
I decided to look at various groups on meetup.com just to get my social life back in gear, and just for the sake of it , I searched for single events. Although I am nowhere near ready, I'm not about to even attempt to date anyone, but the wording of this particular event, like many women's divorce articles from surviving to thriving, really caught my attention because it sounds like the same exact stuff relating to self-empowerment that my W is reading, and some of it she is even saying, as I'm sure many here can relate to this.
I understand attraction from a guys POV but that's as far as it goes for me. As far as women who are separated or divorced and attempting in finding love in their life, finding and redefining their identity, and they're authentic self, I just can't seem to wrap my head around it why a woman or how a woman would lose her identity in a relationship, and why all of them self described as if they are walking on eggshells? Particularly in mine, and others situations? To some degree I can understand how they would lose their identity in a very codependent relationship, and I can understand how a lot of women at times can be people pleaser, never setting proper boundaries, being authenticly vulnerable, and assertive in their wants and needs.
It's almost as if I read the same catchphrases and tagwords in all the same divorce articles for women, and although I somewhat have an understanding of a woman's heart, I still have so much more to learn especially at midlife about relationships. I really wish men stuck together more and we're more supportive of one another like women are in a sense.
Here is the event description.
Details FREE tickets for you and a friend because you are in this meetup. You deserve the love of a lifetime: For single women in midlife looking for love This Event Is For You If... ​​​​​​​You’re sick of dating the same person over and over and you’re done doing that… You’re ready for that special love where you’re seen & cherished just as you are… You’re committed to being YOU no matter what, allowing yourself to be fully expressed always in all ways… You’re looking for sisterhood with other women in your boat and wanna have some fun… You’re desiring a safe place to explore why you hold yourself back and are ready for a breakthrough… You want more inner tools to support your vulnerable heart so that your outside love life rocks without it feeling so scary... You’re done abandoning yourself & walking on eggshells and are ridiculously ready to stand strong in what you want and who you are without apology… And so much more…
OUR ITINERARY...
DAY 1: Create your new love story: We will take time to explore what you are truly wanting in this next love chapter and begin the process of letting go of your sabotaging limiting beliefs which continue to hold you back. DAY 2: Magnetize new love: Now that you see how you have been stopping yourself, we light a love fire to attract your next best relationship.
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to you at Find Fabulous Love LIVE
Discover What’s Blocking You From Welcoming In Next Level Love Quiet Your Inner Critic & Squash Your Doubts Amp Up Your Worthiness & Learn How Lovable You Truly Are Reignite Your Fire and Welcome in Hot, Healthy Love Experience Vulnerability In A Whole New Way That’s Not So Scary Connect With Other Sisters On The Same Love Journey Reflect Upon Your Love Life Story And Begin To Change Your Love Story For The Better If you're single and ready for love but feel stuck in some way & you’re a woman in midlife ready to open your heart and trust in love again, this event is a game changer…
Well I'm wondering the same thing . My W had said the same things man. " I lost my identity , i dont know who i am anymore " like what? how is that even possible?
