Be helpful, but don't be a doormat, and don't perform husbandly duties depending on how far along your sich is. Just lean back, give them space, keep interactions at minimal, focus on you and D2. NO R TALKS. I WISH I LISTENED 7 MONTHS AGO. I can only go so long, like a week with keeping my mouth shut. I've probably gotten trapped into R talks indirectly for almost every weekend for the last 4 months. That stops now, and Im moving forward with securing post S life with S1. She can do whatever her heart makes her happy. I want to see how her fantasy plays out in the real world come this Summer/Fall. Protect your children, and let the accusations roll off your back, but also make changes where warranted.
