So I bought the books DB and DR. I'm little confused about actions I should be taking besides being my best self and wait in limbo land. If my wife is unwilling to recognize anything about our marriage / changes until the MLC passes then what good are strategies throughout the book?

Right now my plan of attack, is "Let her go". Enjoy my kids, get my own life. It is obviously awkward as hell at home, short interactions "good morning" Hi, bye. How was day? Good. etc.

I told her I'm just going to give her space and time and that I will be here on the side lovingly waiting.

Any other strategies people can offer?