UGH... Your description of his passive aggressive behaviour made me want to punch him. He was basically punishing you...like you are his child and not his wife. Good for you for not reacting. Not sure I could have done it. His treatment of you is just plain disrespectful. I maintain what I said before... you deserve so much better.
Why does he insist it is his “home” when he has moved out and lives elsewhere? He really does want to have his cake and eat it too. You just need to figure out how much you will allow him to eat. (((HUGS)))
