"My heart says that I should do it after, so that her interview does not get screwed up."
Although considerate... Does it really matter at this point how your WW conducts herself under stress during HER INTERVIEW? Im not saying be punitive. But deliver your message when YOU think it is right for YOU. Not how you think it will make her feel. Clearly her consideration for YOU has gone out the window with the baby and the bath water.
