I said “careful it’s a little hot”. My W got upset all of a sudden and said something along the lines of “why did you heat it up for that long it’s too hot for him to eat!” She wasn’t yelling but was definitely upset.
This is a boundary opportunity:
H:"W, when you constantly criticise the way I do things, I feel disrespected. If you continue, I will.....
I will do what? Walk away from the conversation? What consequences can you implement to preserve your self respect?
