(I think I talk about it a lot for other people’s sake? They are all so concerned and I feel like I owe them updates. Which is NOT TRUE).
Yes - I have a few friends I only see once in a while, and every time the convo is dominated by H updates, and musing what his "issues" are. I have vowed to stop it. Some are initiated by me, but most want an update. Keeping it brief sounds like a good idea. After all. His issues do not define me or my current life.