Yes the crazy train is in full runaway train mode. That’s amazing to me that this is a top 5 memorable case. It’s killing me. Not the kind of memories I am into making.
I am trying to get all my stuff done for the court, showing compliance with all their junk they want me to do. I am keeping my mindset on the ‘right by would I want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with me?’ mantra. It works for me.
This very much feels like it’s more about punishing me than it is about divorcing me. She keeps saying via her lawyer to the court that I am bullying her and not being fair to her in any way. You’ve seen the numbers above, you’ve seen the story of how this unfolded; it’s only my side but you make that decision. She told me in an email the other day that this is about me not respecting her and she is going to need to feel respected before she can proceed. This sounds like those people on tv demanding respect when they haven’t done anything to earn it. She had every ounce of my respect for years. Staying home with the kids while I was deployed. Taking care of the house while I was deployed. Finances, cooking, cleaning, parenting, being mom and dad at the same time. It’s all part of being a military spouse. Respect those that you know in your life. It’s a hard job too.
I cannot understand. I have mostly stopped trying to. The scientist part of me wants to figure out why. The practical part of me knows I never will and getting out ASAP is the best answer. This angry cycle she needs to keep going must stop. I will fight for what’s right but I will sacrifice to get it over with sooner. I still haven’t been to the house to get any of my stuff, I have what she left for me in storage. The amended orders we are filing on Friday should allow me to go get my things.
Her lawyer is just a greedy POS. He tried arguing that rental house income isn’t income because it’s not from a job. What an idiot. She is getting $3425/month from rental homes but that shouldn’t count as income to calculate child support and maintenance. We just have to make sure our case is bulletproof and he will get steamrolled. I’d don’t hate my W. Her lawyer...he is a liar and I would treat him to the same treatment Bin Laden got it I could. He could careless if I ever saw my kids again so long as he gets paid. Heartless pile of crap.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.