How she came to see me as both a resented parental figure and a second child, etc.
How did you see it?
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W is on vacation this week and originally had all sorts of plans to do things with our D2. I was not included in any of these plans, which still stings a bit. Last year we all took a short trip as a family over the April break. To my chagrin but not my surprise, D2 now has been dropped from a number of W's plans, although W did spend a lot of time with D2 over the weekend and brought her to a BBQ yesterday morning that she originally didn't plan to bring her to.
Niall, your W is shutting you out of her life. This is just the beginning.
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I was supposed to go to a playoff hockey game but my ticket fell through, so I went out with a friend in the evening.
Great!
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W dropped D2 off with me and went off to see a movie with yet another friend. She mentioned something about trivia night tonight but I reminded her that we made a schedule and Tuesday is my night and I have plans with a friend.
Did she follow the schedule, or did she ignore it and go be with her friend?
As much activity your W does, I'm wondering who does the work around the house. Who actually takes care D2? Frankly, I am suspicious of all these times she's suppose to be out with D2. To me, it sounds as if she could be using this as her cover for being with other women. That's just my 2 cents based on the wayward W behavior. I mean, she may have the child with her, IDK, but I think she's blowing smoke up your a$$ for the most part.
She has found a new playground with women who want to participate. I don't know what you think is going to happen. Do you think this will just wear off and she'll stop her pursuit with same sex partners?
Do you have a plan of action?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
