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She is already talking to lawyers and planning to marry the OM. This is what I heard from her conversation with OM.


It may happen, and it may not. People have married their AP. For the WW, it's part of her fantasy. Reality has a way of deflating the thrill of sneaking around and having an affair. In the meantime, you get out of her way, and you use the time to focus on you and daughter.

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She is already talking to lawyers and planning to marry the OM. This is what I heard from her conversation with OM.
Also, I dont think there will be tears or anything as she has already said that she hates me for what I have done in the relationship and has been really cold toward me. Not cooking food for family (just makes her food and for daughter), not talking to me, nothing.


I actually hope she keeps that way until she's out of the house, just b/c I think it would be a lot more difficult for you if she pulled the other stuff. Be prepared for anything. Don't let down your guard.



((hugs))


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!