Andrew I think when the kids are little it’s enough to just say daddy’s friend. Explanations are too complicated. They don’t really understand boyfriend/ girlfriend. With my ex bf after about a year l, my son told me “I think ... has a crush on you mommy” and then we broke up 6 months later. My son still doesn’t really know or care and that’s perfect.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer