I know I talked a lot about my son with ex bf and a bf before him (who I had no intention of introducing) it’s not a pushing for commitment thing. I think it’s cause my life is my son right now. I have him the majority of the time as does the dr. I’m sure it also has to do with limited contact with my sons dad. I don’t talk to him about anything beyond logistics. So it’s nice to have someone to talk about him with.
