H sent me an email about finances in regards to divorce. We had agreed that if we were getting a D that we would try to do it as simply and easily as possible, ie avoid court. I do feel that is potentially possible. Anyway he emailed me asking me to agree to not going after his small retirement savings, and in return he won’t go after my savings account I had when we were married.
I want to be smart and I want to protect myself. I also am not, at this point worried at all that he’s trying to take me for a ride. I trust that in my gut. I also want to respond in the best DB style way. Any advice is welcome