So the W was at the house today while I was at work, her and her friend. First it was just her friend here for 2 hrs then the W. She took a bunch of her bathroom stuff. Did laundry, and ATE MY FOOD!!! I was livid. I called her up, told her she can no longer just come by and do whatever she wants. No laundry, no cooking. I told her, you won't come by and take care of the dogs because you feel as if it's not your house, then you can't come by and cook and do laundry for the same reason. And that you don't get to pick and choose when you come by because what your needing to do is convenient to you. Told her she is increases my expenses and I am on a tight budget. Tried to say she pays rent so she can come and cook or do laundry. I said you are not paying the electric bill or water bill. You have no right to come by and do that. You are not living here, I am and if you need to come by you need to call me first. She then said, fine I'm not paying rent then. I told her she is still responsible for half the rent. Her stuff is here and her name is on the lease.
Mikey, that sounds great, you're finally starting to stand up for yourself! Well done!
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Then tried to say she will give her 30 day notice and said she is pretty much taking everything and putting it in storage. Washer, dryer, couch, table, dresser, bed, rug, tv etc.... I told her no. And that I already told you that you need to write up a proposal for everything and if I agree we will continue forward from there. She tried to say that it's hers because she paid for it.... BS, everything is ours and will be split fairly.
Good job sticking your guns! She might gripe about it, but deep inside a seed of respect has been planted.
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When will I wake up from this nightmare....
It's like a slow awakening. You'll get there, just be patient.
