I told her that I didn't want to remain in a sexless marriage and when she said that she never saw us going back again. I told her that I would be out by the end of the year. I wasn't in any position to leave immediately and I also felt it could be considered desertion. It was no idle threat to cause a reaction. I guess it It could be considered a warning.
RR, is the timeline that long because you need to do work to prepare to move out? If so then I would suggest you get busy. You're in a sexless M and you've tried to change that but she's shut you down at every turn. It sounds like you're done waiting, so by all means if you're ready to move out then move out. You told her you were going to, now SHOW her that you are serious by taking whatever actions you need to take to prepare for that.
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I do remember. And I did do it. It wasn't welcomed. I was told that it wasn't welcomed. I wrote about it here.
I also understand what you are saying. Perhaps I should try again?
I will be interested to see what Sandi writes, but my attitude is you tried, it had a negative impact on your W, you've stopped and told her you are moving out, so don't suddenly go back to touch charges. I think you were consistent in your actions to save the M, but now that you've put her on notice that you are done trying then you need to be consistent with this as well.
