FS: that sounds like gossip, I’m not sure whether you should believe any of it, particularly from someone he wouldn’t tell. Maybe you should ask him about it in person? You’re entitled to ask. The email: I would lose most of those words. Keep it specific and focused on the problems it’s solving: your privacy and D12’s confusion. Those alone are enough to request the boundary. I think maybe you should do it in person though, I’m not sure why given I send lots of stuff like that via text and email. Keep it really short though.