Ah, the [censored] ring ... to take it off or not take it off ... such a trivial thing, but it says so much.
I found a photo the other day of when D12 was a toddler. He was sitting next to her, look of content and concentration on his face, his left arm around the back of her chair so I could see his hand, ring shining on his finger. I never use to notice his ring before. Now, it is the first thing I look for when I look at old photos of us. That I guess is what taking something for granted means.
I took mine off and then put it back on. I am thinking about taking it off again but know that if I do, I will never put it back on again. His has been off since the day after he MO (taken off at the gym and never put back on).