Ah, the [censored] ring ... to take it off or not take it off ... such a trivial thing, but it says so much.

I found a photo the other day of when D12 was a toddler. He was sitting next to her, look of content and concentration on his face, his left arm around the back of her chair so I could see his hand, ring shining on his finger. I never use to notice his ring before. Now, it is the first thing I look for when I look at old photos of us. That I guess is what taking something for granted means.

I took mine off and then put it back on. I am thinking about taking it off again but know that if I do, I will never put it back on again. His has been off since the day after he MO (taken off at the gym and never put back on).


W40 (me), H40
M14, Together 16
D12, D9

BD Oct 17
Moved out Mar 18