I hope you don't mind me chipping in. I've been reading your thread but I don't think I've posted before. You seem to be in such a sad place. It's strange, in the midst of all the heartache and uncertainty and upheaval, how all those little things - like the wearing of a ring or not - can mean so much and cause so much internal change. I'm still wearing my ring. H took his off when he left, then put it back on again about two days later. He came to the house once to pick up the kids and I saw he wasn't wearing it and I burst into tears. Turned out it was in his pocket and he'd taken it off because he was exercising. He put it back on in front of me. I always see it on his hand now - but I don't know if he just puts it on when he knows he's going to see me so he doesn't have to deal with me being upset. That's how crazy my mind gets about it all sometimes. I am trying to get that go and get to a place of acceptance - the place you are on your way to being.
