Thanks for the feedback, DnJ. I have a follow-up question. I have no "proof" that H is seeing OW regularly, whether she is staying with him most of the time, or if they hardly see each other at all. So, what if I do get in a conversation with the kids about MLC, and they ask about an OW. S21 did in fact want to know if H was having an affair when I told them he moved out. At that time I truthfully told them I didn't think so. But now? I usually respond to pointed questions from them about H with "you will have to ask him that".
