From my experience, i could be mistaken, but all women have learning thoughts and they usually keep a scorecard when they hold onto things. Think of it this way you do something right, you get Five Points you do something wrong you deduct 10 points. Think of it and treat it as a love bank of deposits and withdrawals. The ruminations never go away almost there are addressed and corrected, sometimes they even keep them to themselves for years and expect us to get it