Thanks for the quick responses. I did go dark for a month but unfortunately decided to have the talk 2 days ago. I needed to get things off my chest like the lack of therapy she is seeking and the financial situation.
The talk at least got her to make a Dr appointment and see the therapist more regular. Also we are going to figure out financing so she doesn't rack up more debt. Yes I feel it set me back after going dark for a month. Reset
It is very difficult to know how to act, she is talking to me normally, makes me lunch. We share so much of the household responsibilities which force us to communicate regularly. The other major issue is we are both huge Toronto Raptors fans and playoffs start today. It is our thing, we watch, talk, cheer together. I can't give this up, it will be too obvious that I am trying to make her feel bad. I will 100% not have another relationship talk with her.
Our family doctor was extremely optimistic that hormonal treatment or depression meds will help speed this up? Says that she has ruminating thoughts that need to go away for her to feel normal again. Any info on this?
