The Quick Solution & being "Unique"

[SoTorn]

Great post. However, the portion where the LBS suddenly wakes up because of BD isnt true in my situation. I woke up several years ago and recognized my behavior that was damaging my MR. I made huge changes in who I am and recognized that I needed to change for me and to treat my W and kids better. Therefore over the course of three years I did just that.

So even though I am now and have been for a while AMOAFWL, my WW didnt even care. Even though she acknowledged that I changed initially and that I was being a better husband and father, she decided her selfish desires were more important than me and our family and chose to hurt me as badly as possible.

I found myself regardless and I moved on, because I deserve much better.