Wife is having an affair and wants to separate

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Sorry and glad you are here Vik.

Just take some time to relax. You are not in a hurry, in fact time is your ally. Use that time wisely.

Keep reading, keep posting.

Do as R2C says. You need to regain some respect. Then set her free: "W you are free to go, good luck. See you around"

Detach, GAL, be there for your kid, set boundaries.

Be strong, your journey is just starting. You have a goal, get into amoafwl. Start walking. It´s a marathon, keep the pace.