Thanks a lot Tryhard and I agree with your comments and thanks for the thread you posted.
I know I have to detach and work on my self and that is what I doing. Will buy the book today itself.
The only thing was that i wanted to know from the people who have gone from the same experience so share their thoughts becuase they will help me decide how to proceed further without causing damage/further damage.
I am confused about confronting and that experience I would still like to know from other members who have done i and what worked and what did not, how did they do it, was there anything specific that made a huge impact, anything that deteriorated things.
So that is why I had put in the questions and some details as to ensure that they have some background.
