IHC, switch your thinking. DBing is for you. Not for her. If you are doing GAL, 180s, and detachment with one on eye on how she reacts then you are doing it wrong. You need to be doing those things without a giving a flip what she thinks and how she reacts. That is what validation is for.

Thanks for reminding me. She was the one that was obsessed with the reality TV star. Fantasy. Wayward fog to the extreme.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018