Thanks guys. No Steve not in MC yet. Another big step for her and I am not pushing it. I am taking everything I have learned over the last 10-11 months now and applying it to my behavior, actions, communication, etc. It is having a very positive effect on her and I see some it it slowly rubbing off.

One of the big changes is just how I react and converse over tense issues. A few months ago it was hostility, anger, resentment, the whole nine yards. Now with a total 180 we are able to talk calmly about sensitive issues and she provides more and more about how she is feeling and why she thinks she did what she did. I see my 180s becoming her 180s.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019