It’s true, you may actually want something different than what you need RIGHT now.
I think there is balance in people. People who just devote their lives to their kids and husband. Well, that’s extreme. I mean, to each his own, but I don’t want a husband like that and I don’t want to be a wife like that.
If I give myself any credit in this world, it ‘s for striking a healthy balance. I’m usually pretty good at it, but the scale at times tip one way or another, but I am not an extremist. Being a divorced mom at 28 taught me a whole lot. That I have interests, I love my friends and they are family to me, and I like spending time woth a partner, but not dedicating my whole self to them.
You’ll figure it out in due time. But neither way is wrong or right.