Oh, and I am that woman JUju is too and kind of have the same problem in dating. I am fiercely loyal, you never have to question me as a partner and I do nothing for the chase. If I’m with you, I’m woth you and that’s that. I’ll treat you like a king too. And this has caused guy to maybe get bored or not feel the trill of the chase. The only one who chased was FF and I think i that’s because he was 9 years younger than me. He definitely pursued me. And he got jealous.
7 months for M and I and he still is excited to see me, still plants a big one on me every time. Still does for me, as you can see. But he isn’t jealous and I think that’s because he knows he doesn’t have to be. I am loyal and don’t play games. I remember when I went to the beer fest with my ladies when I was dating FF he was acting ridiculous. He pretended he had friends there so I wouldn’t do something “stupid” and pretty much texted me every 5 minutes the whole time. M told me to have fun and be careful, sent me a few texts, and that was that.
I have that book, “why men love bitches” and I began reading it a few years ago. I am just not a bitch. Seriously, I get the dynamic, but it’s just not me. I guess sometimes we just have to wait until we find someone compatibility. ( lord knows I waited a long time”
