Have you read DR ? Have you considered a coach session ? If you are expecting “do this tactic and all will be good” , then you are going to be disappointed . First off do not panic and do anything major . Get hold of yourself so you can make the right ACTION .
So first off you cannot control her !! Only you, your posts are all based on her and her act, these you cannot control , but in time ( not now ) you can influence.
Repeat , you want a magic bullet then I suggest you will be disappointed.
I am surprised about how many people here have not read the book and have no idea of the techniques, clue this site does not express the things in the book , they are just additional.
