My MIL and I went to my lawyer’s yesterday and signed the papers that officially make the home mine and hers - 50/50. She told me when we were sitting there that she will stay in this situation as long as it works for me and that if anything “exciting” (or anyone) ever happened where I would want to sell, she would be open to doing so as she would never want to hold me back from anything. See why I love her? She has been my rock and my kids could not have asked for a better grandmother.
I have a date tomorrow after work with the guy my sister thinks is perfect for me. I’m not sure I agree with her. A long distance relationship is not really ideal given how much of my time is spent working and looking after my kids. The local guy whose profile I saw last Saturday texted me today after work. A random psych question that made me laugh. He was somewhat disappointed when I guessed who he was after about four texts...lol. I told him it wasn’t hard since he is the only person I have given my number to in awhile. We chatted for a bit. He is funny and smart. I am hoping, since he is local, that we can meet before we spend too much time texting. It is always awkward when you spend a lot of time texting someone and then meet them and are not attracted to them the way you hoped you would be. It is especially awkward if one is attracted and the other is not. I kinda have a feeling that is what is going to happen when I meet this guy tomorrow. I hope if it does that he is the one not attracted. I am ambivalent about having a LD relationship regardless of attraction so I don’t think I would be too disappointed either way.
I still text with Facebook guy every day. We don’t chat nearly as much as we did before but it is still daily and I feel like we have become good friends. Maybe it will be more than that in the future but I don’t think anytime in the near future. As he likes to tell me... he is “in transition”. Whatever that means...lol. Still...it is fun to talk with him so I am going to keep talking to him with no expectations.
Should be a good weekend. No solid plans for Saturday but I will find something fun to do. Pool league play-offs all day Sunday. Always fun!!
