Hmmm....your H has Asperger's and he was a philanderer? That's a really unusual combination - usually Aspies are loyal to a fault.
No, my son has Asperger's. Although My H mentioned a few times throughout the years that he wondered if he had Aspie tendencies too. But I don't think he he is on the spectrum. And I am very familiar with it as I also worked in special ed for a while.