It is good to see you know you did all you could do to try to save your marriage. As you said, the three year nightmare is over. That is quite a weight lifted from you, something I have recently discovered as well.
What a wonderful update, you sound so much better, so happier, so more in touch with you. I am glad you dropped in to share with us.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.