I thought I would check back in and let you know that the divorce was finalized last month. The nightmare which began almost 3 years ago is now over. Surprisingly, I feel good; because I know in my heart I did all could to keep the marriage afloat. In the end, my MLC wife got what she wanted, but I do not feel guilty anymore. I finally told my kids of the news as well as my first ex and they all took it well. Amazingly my newest ex texts me and is friendlier to me now than in the last three years. She says she is emotionally in a better place. All and all I am thankful for all the support this forum and Michelles books and coaches over the last year. I’ve learned a lot about myself and I really have not interest in going back to my ex even if she came back. I also met someone who likes me for me and I am much happier than I have been in years.
