I am Not saying you are stuck. I would just hate to see someone like EHR ruin wonderful moments and family events for you. You shouldn’t dread, you should be happy. No deserves to rob that from you.
Sure, maybe she’s being fake nice. You see through her, and I’m sure she isn’t fooling anyone else. Let her act as she will. You know the truth. Enjoy in the celebration. She is very insignificant .