Thanks a lot guys for your help and advice. Well, as I mentioned that she is moving out next week, what else should I say while confronting. I understand I will tell her that I know of the affair and then what?(as I know when I will do that, she will say yes, I have an affair and want to divorce you.
Also, I think as she is involved with OM, she will be planning to file divorce soon and marry that guy.
Also, I have read in other posts that as we will be separated, I wont have a chance to set boundaries.
The affair has been going on for 3-4 months, so, I belive it will be at its peak and I am not sure if she will be willing to talk of any reconciliation. She has vilified me so much and has so much of resentment, I don't know where to begin and what I should do.