Ok I can see that with the flip flopping. The flip flopping has occurred over months based on changes, and how much action has been actually executed over the last 6 months. I know i have been a bit reactive evem while taking the time to think things through. I do understand that my changes have to be consistent. However. She is a flip flopper too. She has changed her mind about exercising, bariatric surgery, and career choices over the last 4 months. So its almost like I feel like a flip flopper is placating to another flip flopper, who cannot accept the fact that they are a flip flopper too. I didn't leave out any details, if anything im too detailed because i want to convey full info and looking for proper advise from board.
